Generous Love: Discover the Joy of Living "Others First" Tim O'Brien And she would go in

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Generous Love: Discover the Joy of Living "Others First" Tim O'Brien And she would go inIf asked, most of us want to make a difference, to live and love generously. But we get caught in the crazy rush of household routines, work demands, cranky attitudes, difficult people, exhaustion, worry, and pride, and once again we fail to love the people around us at all let alone well. We too easily default to focusing more on self than on others, on receiving more than giving, in ways we don't even recognize. We dream of reaching out. We just